Wednesday, 25 May 2011
EROS!!!
Without admitting it, everybody wants to love or to be loved by someone. In a world where its existence is based on love, very few know the meaning, or have felt love.
Without much long thing, lemme delve into a class where we can see a little evidence of the word. In a class that boasts of about 9 couples ; E & D, T & N, I&D, C&B, F&O, S&B, L&E, R&B, D&N... with about two more joining the list, i don't see most of them staying together for too long.
Why??
I seriously don't know...
Lemme give some cases
1) Alphabetically, let 'him' be X, let 'her' be Y, and another girl be Z. X and Y are currently dating, but X flirts with Z in the presence of Y, and this pisses of Y.
Soln; A couple is 2, not 3. Y, seriously have a chat with X. If he is serious about you, he'll do something about it. If he doesn't do anything, then i seriously don't know what you're doing with him...
X, everybody likes a lil something extra, but in the long run, its actually a loss. Lemme put it like this... Y is an 8, and Z is a 2, that LOOKS like a 10 because she is not yours. So if you leave your 8 for a 2, who loses?? food for thought...
2) He/her is really hot/friendly and really loves attention particularly from the opposite sex, and this makes his/her partner uncomfortable, thus bringing doubt into the picture...
Soln; If the attention seeking shit has been present from, the onset, that is, you know your babe/guy is naturally friendly/outgoing, den you really don't need to let that bother you. only if the handshake has reached the elbow.
If you notice that your partner's love for attention has evolved with time, and you notice some changes, you should caution him/her. Because if doubt comes in, it will become an issue of trust, and trust me, no matter how hard you try, your mind will win that battle.
3) Say you & yours are really loving what you have, but one way or the other, you guys have a serious argument...
Soln; most times, the seemingly serious problem isn't that serious. The main problem is ego/pride. It makes things so complicated that if & when you guys resolve your issues, you realise that it was nothing. You won't even be able to remember what you were feuding about!!
I learnt this from my lovely girlfriend...in a relationship, never involve a third party. That means that whatever happens in your relationship should be sorted out by you two...
4) A strange text/call to your babe/guy
Soln; There's nothing wrong with asking for more info; who the person is, why the call/text, or demanding an explanation if it requires one.
You didn't hear this from me, but, its ok to spy if foul play is suspected...
The thing is, a relationship is meant to uplift you, make you a better person. Its not about what you can get from him/her, but what you can give to make a difference in your partner's life... No doubt, there would be rough times, but when they come, stand as a team & overcome.
Trust me when i say that there's nothing better than being in love with someone, and that person loves you in return. There's nothing I love better than kissing the soft lips of my babe and tasting the love, friendship, companionship and trust on her lips...
As for who wrote this, i'm a Bad Boi, who likes many, but loves one ( i love you baby **@hawttieb**)... Its your boy, Dr San...
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